Robbie Williams has spoken of the “discomfort” he feels when approached by fans for photos and autographs.
In a candid Instagram post, the pop star said he can “mask it well”, but in reality, he feels frightened by social interaction and panics every time a stranger approaches him.
The singer also revealed that he turned down multiple requests for photos on a recent flight.
But, in the lengthy and nuanced post, he also said he has “gratitude” for people telling him they are fans of his, adding: “This isn’t a complaint, it’s context.”
The former Take That singer said that during the domestic flight across the US, one fan handed him a “lovely note” and then asked for a photo.
Williams says he wrote a note back.
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“I explained I’d been up since 04:30, had two hours’ sleep, and wrangled four kids through the airport. I’ve got bags under my eyes and I’m dealing with anxiety,” he wrote.
“I explained that if they came and took a photo with me, my anxiety would spike – because then the whole cabin would start wondering who I am.”
He says another fan then asked for a photo, so he wrote a similar note on the back of his plane ticket.
“As I was writing that one, another passenger walked up and just asked outright for a photo,” he said. “I obliged.”
He said he sees it as “being of service” and that if it makes someone happy, he would do his best to facilitate.
“Still… I think there needs to be a caveat,” he added.
Williams said there was an “unspoken law” that celebrities should be accessible 24/7, and that he should greet all strangers “like you’re the mayor of the best town”.
“But that thinking’s off,” he said.
He said he thought more than 50% of people who approached him couldn’t name one of his albums. “They’re fans of fame,” he said. “But not necessarily of me.”
He added that if people were actually fans of him, he wanted to hear it.
“That means a lot. I’ll make time. I’ve got gratitude for that,” he said.
But he then asked whether there should be a limit on how many people can access you in one day.
“Every interaction – with strangers or even people I know well – fills me with discomfort,” he said.
“I mask it well. But social interaction still frightens me,” he said, adding: “Every time a stranger approaches – and they are strangers – I panic.”
Williams reiterated that he wasn’t complaining, writing: “I’m not moaning. This is a problem I’d rather have than not.”
He added: “I’m not saying don’t ask. You can.
“What I am saying is: let people be people.”
Williams, who had a well-documented struggle with depression and substance abuse in his 30s, has spoken in the past about his mental health.
In the comments section under his post, people praised him for his openness and honesty.
“Everyone is entitled to their boundaries,” wrote one user.
“No human is entitled access to another human, famous or not,” wrote another. “I think celebrities need to start normalising saying no to fans.”
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